emotional intelligence

  • The Coming Chaos

    It is an evolutionary trait that siblings favor different things. For example, if the first born child likes vanilla ice cream, their second born sibling will like chocolate ice cream, and their third born sibling will like something weird like… Continue reading

  • Uncontrollable

    Emotions build visions in our minds.These visions guide our behavior and choices.Our behavior and choices manifest the world we live in. This system is interactive: we can alter other people’s emotions both indirectly, through our behavior and choices, and directly,… Continue reading

  • The Game of Emotional Old Maid

    Everyone understands the dynamic: immature parents who push all of the emotional responsibility onto the oldest, or most mature child. Today, we have a couple of generations of people who were raised to believe that anger and hatred are unnatural… Continue reading

  • How I Classify Music

    Imagine getting a message from an old friend you haven’t seen in a long time, and making arrangements to meet one evening. As the plans get closer there is anticipation that turns into excitement, and when you finally meet the… Continue reading

  • The Narrative Triangle

    There are three elements in the building of a narrative: emotional energy, imagination, and logic. Intense Emotion causes images to form in the mind. The anxiety of a mother wondering why their teenager is late coming home puts bad Images… Continue reading

  • Let Them Groom

    Insecurity invites others to influence our own narrative… our own self esteem. This is why most people avoid things that make them feel insecure, and live in a prison of conformity; making sure nothing upturns their understanding of themselves. This… Continue reading