Maciolekism

emotional intelligence

  • Uncontrollable

    Emotions build visions in our minds.These visions guide our behavior and choices.Our behavior and choices manifest the world we live in. This system is interactive: we can alter other people’s emotions both indirectly, through our behavior and choices, and directly,… Continue reading

  • The Game of Emotional Old Maid

    Everyone understands the dynamic: immature parents who push all of the emotional responsibility onto the oldest, or most mature child. Today, we have a couple of generations of people who were raised to believe that anger and hatred are unnatural… Continue reading

  • How I Classify Music

    Imagine getting a message from an old friend you haven’t seen in a long time, and making arrangements to meet one evening. As the plans get closer there is anticipation that turns into excitement, and when you finally meet the… Continue reading

  • The Narrative Triangle

    There are three elements in the building of a narrative: emotional energy, imagination, and logic. Intense Emotion causes images to form in the mind. The anxiety of a mother wondering why their teenager is late coming home puts bad Images… Continue reading

  • Let Them Groom

    Insecurity invites others to influence our own narrative… our own self esteem. This is why most people avoid things that make them feel insecure, and live in a prison of conformity; making sure nothing upturns their understanding of themselves. This… Continue reading

  • Kindness Is Not Always Respectful

    It is more important to be respectful than it is to be kind. To have a conversation with someone we disagree with, respect is necessary, but kindness is not. Immature, closed minded people will shut down and distance themselves from… Continue reading