All people are driven by their emotions:
Passion fuels the imagination, and
imagination is the garden where logic grows.

When people want war, they get war.
When people want destruction, they get destruction.
When people want a new start, they get a new start.
When people want to rebuild, they get to rebuild.

Unfortunately, we cannot control the flow of emotional energy.
It is like music; one note dictates what notes can follow.
Wanting war cannot turn into wanting to rebuild
in one simple step. We have to go through the entire process.

Not unlike an argument between spouses;
cutting it short plants toxic seeds in 
the garden of the imagination.